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Dating considerations...
What questions should we consider when dating someone? - Do I like what I see? With the multitude of sensory signals that we receive constantly, our brain will only sustain focus and attention to what is interesting. If we don’t like enough what we see, we will soon lose interest and look for something more interesting. - Why do I like what I see? When considering the interest on someone else, we will do so by adjusting our expectations to our own perception
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G-Spot versus Clitoris orgasm...
I guess the first question to answer is whether the G-Spot does exist... Well, the information available on the subject shows that there...
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Jul 102 min read


Can a relationship survive betrayal?
The simple answer is yes… but… it is not an easy situation to overcome. Betrayal is an experience where pain is felt very deeply and it...
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Mar 272 min read


Long Term Relationship Satisfaction
The scenario which sounds so familiar…. “We met, we fell in love, and when we started dating, everything felt easy. We used to spend time...
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Mar 35 min read


Low Sexual Desire
Almost 1 in 2 people experiences some form of sexual issue. Sometimes the issue is of biological nature as is the case when there is a...
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Feb 95 min read


Male Sexual Issues - Part 2
In Male Sexual Issues, part 1, the focus was on ED. This second part will provide some information on the other male sexual issues which...
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Jan 173 min read


Male Sexual Issues - Part 1
Sexual issues are multi-dimensional and tend to combine elements of biological, psychological and social causes. 1 in 5 people (male or...
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Jan 164 min read


Female Sexual Issues
Sexual issues are multi-dimensional and tend to combine elements of biological, psychological and social causes. 1 in 5 people (male or...
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Jan 143 min read


The Othello Syndrome or delusional jealousy
Othello is a play by Shakespear. In this tragedy, the main character Othello is consumed by jealousy , and this leads to the tragic...
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Jan 123 min read


Love (part 2)... What is it?
Human beings are hard wired to seek connection with others. To love and being loved in return is a constant quest for the majority of...
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Jan 73 min read


Attachment styles… What is it?
Bowlby, who studied attachment styles and is dubbed the father of Attachment Theory , once said that we learn to love in childhood ....
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Jan 62 min read


Grief… what is it?
“Grief is a reflection of a connection that has been lost”. – David Kessler Grief is a process experienced naturally as a result of a...
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Dec 16, 20242 min read


Loneliness… what is it?
Loneliness is a concept that relates to the way we feel when missing social contact with one or more people. As with most personal...
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Dec 9, 20242 min read


“Love languages”…what is it?
“ Love languages ” is a concept which was created in 1992 , extracted from the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts ,...
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Nov 10, 20242 min read


Erotic Mind... What is it?
In simple terms, the erotic mind is our erotic template, how our mind generates interest or not for sex in its broad sense . Sexual...
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Nov 3, 20242 min read


Oxytocin… What is it?
Oxytocin is known to most of us as the “love hormone”. Why has oxytocin been given such label? What is the connection between our...
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Oct 21, 20242 min read


Fantasy... What is it?
A sexual fantasy refers to an image or a range of images that we imagine and that are found to be either sexually arousing or erotic. ...
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Oct 6, 20242 min read


Eroticism… what is it?
Let’s start by looking at the etymology of the word eroticism. If we breakdown the word eroticism, it is made of “erotic” and the suffix...
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Sep 29, 20241 min read


Pleasure… what is it?
The definition of pleasure as found in a dictionary is “ a feeling of happy satisfaction and enjoyment ”. We are naturally built to seek...
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Sep 22, 20242 min read


Self-worth... What is it?
Self-worth is a concept about self that evaluates the value we put on ourselves . It is one of the words we can use to describe how we...
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Sep 17, 20242 min read
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